Miscellaneous

No matter how I think about it, I’m hitting a wall. I’m not happy about it and trust me, it’s not easy to say either. But, I’ve hit a wall and I don’t know exactly how to get through it, around it, or over it.

What am I trying to really say?

Excuses. I’ve dealt myself a laundry list of excuses.

I’ve said I don’t have time. I’ve said I don’t have the money to do it. I’ve said I don’t have anyone to help me.

Each and everything I’ve said was just an excuse. And, I’m here to say, I’ve tired of it.

So what am I going to do about it? Well… right now, I’m not entirely 100% sure. But, with the help of a few close friends who shall remain nameless offered up a few suggestions. Some of which will get implemented.

Here’s what we (they) came up with:

• start a private twitter group to stay better-connected
• start a private ‘Friends of’ Facebook group
• bring back the Facebook weekly show events
• start tagging people on Facebook and twitter for alerts
  • obviously, we would get their permission first
• start doing Facebook ads

Sooo, yeah, I’m still a little lost on what direction to go. What kind of thoughts or ideas do you have?

Seriously though, this is something I’ve struggled with for a loooong time.

I’m trying – at least I’ve always thought I was trying hard – to grow the show and those things that are connected to it. But, the things I’ve tried in the past didn’t feel like they were worth the effort. And maybe it’s because I was lacking a little vision. Nonetheless, I’ve got to do something.

Doing something and failing is better than not doing anything. Right?

My mission per say is three-fold: Engage – Educate – Entertain

So I’m coming to you! I ask you to engage with me and educate me on what you think may work.

What are you willing to change in order to grow?

It’s a question I’ve been thinking about since the start of the year. And, the more I thought about it, the more I realized I needed to accept change, even embrace it, in order to really grow.

Maybe it’s because I’m at a point in my life where certain chapters are finally coming to a close while others begin.

Or, maybe it’s because I’m just not happy with some of the things most important in my life.

The key for me that will completely unlock growth? Change!

I have to change some things. Some more than others. But… change has to be present.

At the start of their first preseason football game with the Green Bay Packers, 49ers QB Colin Kaepernick refused to stand during the national anthem.

His reason? “Oppression” of blacks and minorities in America.

In a statement to Pro Football Talk, the Niners team said:

“The national anthem is and always will be a special part of the pregame ceremony. It is an opportunity to honor our country and reflect on the great liberties we are afforded as its citizens. In respecting such American principles as freedom of religion and freedom of expression, we recognize the right of an individual to choose to participate, or not, in our celebration of the national anthem.”

Kaepernick doesn’t seem bothered at all by any backlash he may receive by saying:

“I am not going to stand up to show pride in a flag for a country that oppresses Black people and people of color. To me, this is bigger than football and it would be selfish on my part to look the other way. There are bodies in the street and people getting paid leave and getting away with murder. …

“This is not something that I am going to run by anybody. I am not looking for approval. I have to stand up for people that are oppressed. … If they take football away, my endorsements from me, I know that I stood up for what is right.”

The photo that sparked the controversy?

Zoom-in of @jenniferleechan photo during national anthem that shows Colin Kaepernick sitting on the bench. #49ers pic.twitter.com/c6F10yIIRE

— Matt Barrows (@mattbarrows) August 27, 2016

Here are just a few reactions:

With Colin Kaepernick's intelligence and ability, if he was born in any other country, he would've starved to death in the streets by now.

— Victor Nikki (@hapkidobigdad) August 27, 2016

How can a football player make millions of $ in America, but can't honor the flag that gave him those millions? https://t.co/eK18aOUyjS

— Madeline Sierra (@pinkpetalz) August 27, 2016

Disrespectful. Be a part of the solution, not the problem. Use your 100M to make positive change, not further divide https://t.co/gmfRoNqb0C

— Kassy Dillon (@KassyDillon) August 27, 2016

@KassyDillon If it's bigger than football then why is @Kaepernick7 still playing? He should quit and join a movement .. oh wait $$$ hmmm

— Tom Stokes (@SportsPlusShow) August 27, 2016

Look how Mean & Unjust
America has been to Colin Kaepernick

If I owned that house I wouldn't stand either pic.twitter.com/WyCWMdfVJO

— Villi Wilson (@Conservative_VW) August 27, 2016

Excuse me for just a second while I get a little spiritual. And, if that’s just not your thing, I hope you’ll continue to read on, but if not, no big deal. However, I think this is something that’s extremely important to talk about.

Let me start out by saying I didn’t sleep well at all. I tossed and turned while there was a pretty intense thunderstorm getting it’s rage on. Normally, this wouldn’t be an issue at all. Like most people, I enjoy sleeping through a good, hard rain. But this time felt different. Different in a sense because something that’s been in the back of my thoughts over the last few months started to make sense. And it was magnified as I began the day.

Being that I couldn’t sleep, I got up and hit the gym for a little workout. I was feeling pretty good by the end of the workout, so I got the crazy idea to hop on the treadmill for a few minutes. I normally don’t do that. I’d much rather be out on the bike getting some much needed fresh air. Thanks to the thunderstorm, well… that just wasn’t going to happen. So, I grabbed my laptop, propped it up on the treadmill and hit play on a devotional address I had been eager to watch earlier in the week.

As the video began playing, I made mention of the length and set a goal of running twenty minutes; a lofty goal for someone who normally struggles to hit the ten to fifteen-minute mark. Before I knew it, forty-eight minutes had passed, the video was done, and I was still going. I don’t know if it was divine intervention that kept me going, but my mind was racing faster than I was able to keep up with it.

The thought in the back of my mind that I had been struggling with for months was now starting to make sense. This was a topic that I had presented before on previous shows, but, I never seemed satisfied with the message that I had presented. Nonetheless, the Lord placed this message in front of me at just the right time that I needed, and at just the right time so that I could make sense of it and understand it.

It seems everywhere we turn these days, there are storms raging around, within, and at us. They are designed to defeat us at every turn. The storm I’m referring to is religion. In a nutshell, that’s it. The attack on religion is moving forward with precision, and at a pace that many are unable to keep up with.

Religion is everywhere! We just have to recognize it’s there. Or at least, was there. It’s found in literature, art, communities, even in the foundations of nations. Argue as much as you want, America wouldn’t be America if it weren’t for religion, and the opportunity to freely practice religion. It’s what separates America from all other nations.

Let’s take a look at some of the places religion once was. Starting with literature. In times of old, some aspect of religion was found in all types of literature. Sadly, today, literature is shunned if it points to religion and morality. It’s all about fantasy.

Art used to be a direct reflection of religion. Most works of art used to depict the history and times found in the bible and other religious texts. Today? It’s all about being expressive and abstract. A single red dot on a ten foot square canvas is now referred to as art.

In communities all across America, religion once held the community together. It bound one another together. It was a support vessel for the broken. Today? Communities are at odds with each other. They are divided, not united. Today, it’s all about the individual and their feelings, and only their feelings. It’s not about lifting up the person walking alone on the street, or the neighbor that found out their spouse has cancer. It’s not about that anymore. If someone is offended, they react and explode.

This creates a downward spiral within society. What once bound and tied us together, is now the very thing that people reject and shun. A complete removal of religion is exactly what we’ve been warned about in the past. We’ve been warned so many times over, one would think it to be something worth protecting. Yet, the very thought of talking religion shuts people off and turns them away.

We continue to be warned even today. I call the message prophetic as we continue to see the erosion of religion more and more each day that passes. (It doesn’t matter what religion or church you belong to, it is their goal to remove it and silence the thought and speaking of religion.)

One rather prophetic warning came in 1978, when Neal A. Maxwell said:

“We will see a maximum, if indirect, effort made to establish irreligion as the state religion. It is actually a new form of paganism which uses the carefully preserved and cultivated freedoms of western civilization to shrink freedom, even as it rejects the value essence of our rich Judeo-Christian heritage…

“This new irreligious imperialism seeks to disallow certain opinions simply because those opinions grow out of religious convictions. Resistance to abortion will be seen as primitive. Concern over the institution of the family will be viewed as untrendy and unenlightened…

“There is occurring a discounting of religiously based opinions. There may even be a covert and subtle disqualification of some for certain offices in some situations, in an ironic irreligious test for office.”

Let those words sink in for a minute. Compare that warning with what we are seeing unravel right before our eyes!

Jeffrey R. Holland said in a devotional address:

“That forecast of turbulent religious weather issued nearly 40 years ago is steadily being fulfilled virtually every day somewhere in the world in the minimization of (or open hostility toward) religious practice, religious expression, and even in some cases the very idea of religious belief itself.”

In 2015, Bruce C. Hafen remarked:

“Democracy’s core values of civilized religion … are now under siege—partly because of violent criminals who claim to have religious motives, partly because the wellsprings of stable social norms once transmitted naturally by religion and marriage-based family life are being polluted[,] … and partly because the advocates of some causes today have marshalled enough political and financial capital to impose, by intimidation rather than by reason, their anti-religion strategy of might makes right.”

History – if you are a believer – shows us in the Bible that when people turned away from God, things wound up being corrected. The ship was righted per say. And, as you are aware, the Bible also tells us of a time when Christ will appear again and cleanse the world one final time.

You and I have an obligation to ourselves, one another, and to the Lord himself, to protect religion as well as its role and place in today’s society. We cannot sit idle and watch religion fall by the wayside. There are many things that are under siege, and to echo the words commonly attributed to Dietrich Bonhoeffer saying, “Silence in the face of evil is itself evil: God will not hold us guiltless. Not to speak is to speak. Not to act is to act.”

I say these things, not because I’m a prophet, but as a warning. I recognize patterns, and one that I’ve seen over the past few months has been in reference to the 1978 quote referred to earlier about the idea of irreligion. There are storms on the horizon, and they are headed straight for us – if they aren’t already here now. I only hope that you aren’t oblivious to these storms and threats. I only hope that your house is in order. I only hope that you are willing to sacrifice in whatever manner you are asked to protect religion.

I’ll admit it is pretty difficult to live positive in a world so full of negatives.

It comes at you in so many directions!

You turn on the news; negative. You turn on the radio; negative. Facebook, twitter, and various other forms of social media; negative.

And, most of the time, logging on to social media throws even more at you. Aside from all the negative stuff, you get bombarded by things that are borderline pornographic.

It’s all so disgusting!

So… what can we do? Better yet, is there anything we really can do?

First and foremost, it has to start with you! You can’t sit in front of a computer screen, with smartphone in hand, and be a keyboard warrior.

Sure, you can flag media as offensive; you can even block the person. But, if you are genuine in your relationships, speak up and speak out.

“Silence in the face of evil is itself evil: God will not hold us guiltless. Not to speak is to speak. Not to act is to act.” ― Dietrich Bonhoeffer

There are times where I would love to rant online and clear my mind. But, that’s not who I want to be. I don’t want to be that guy who always complains about every little thing that goes wrong. I’m more focused on the people and things around me.

A few years ago, I was attending a conference at church where someone made a very profound statement. They said, ‘Imagine the person you are looking at, or working with, is going through one of the toughest things they have ever had to deal with, and 10 times out of 10… You’ll be right.’

That statement really spoke to me!

We’ve all had those days, right? Well… I was not having that great of a day, but I noticed that a listener had posted something on social media that raised my eyebrows. I was really feeling for this friend, so I reached out to let them know I noticed.

I didn’t reach out because I wanted to feel better about my own problems. I reached out because I had some genuine concern for this friend.
What I’m trying to say is even though there is so much negativity all around us, there is just as much positive also.

If you are tired of seeing, and being a part of some of the negativity, then change your mindset for the positive.

Lose yourself in serving those around you. There is great joy in serving others.

Be someone’s positive in a negative world.

 

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It’s that time of year, where most people go out and brave the elements, only to wait countless minutes and hours in long lines to get just the right gift.

And, for a lot of people, they take advantage of incredible sales and non-holidays like black Friday and cyber Monday.

While that’s okay and all, I want to talk about something along the lines of gift-giving.

I was driving down the road, listening to the K-Love, and the guy on the radio was talking about a conversation he had with one of the guys from Big Daddy Weave, lead singer Mike Weaver.

Weaver was telling him about a recent time where he was out giving service by handing out little care packages or something for a men’s retreat; I think. At the time, they had just run out of shaving razors.

So, Mike ran around the corner to a nearby drug store to pick up some cheap razors. And, while he was standing there in the aisle reaching for a few packages of the cheapest razors on the shelf, it hit him.

He said that as he reached out, he remembered a scripture he had read many times over:

“Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.” – Matthew 25:40

When Weaver realized what was happening, he had a change of heart and instead, reached for a higher quality pack of razors. And did so knowing that he would want to give the best of the best to God, so why not give the same to one of His children.

That’s the principle behind this scripture!

What we do and give to others, it’s as if we are doing it to the Lord.

Are we going to give Him the cheapest thing on the shelf? Or, would we give Him the best?

Are we giving our best, or are we settling for less than the best?

So, it’s okay to seek out a good deal, but… if you can’t give the best… maybe you need to put it back and have a change of heart.

 

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It’s no secret ex-wrestler Jesse Ventura didn’t have favorable feelings about Chris Kyle. He was in the Sirius XM studio complex and interrupted the “Opie and Jimmy Show” while they were live conducting an interview with UFC fighter Urijah Faber.

He raised his arms and announced, “I won.” Ventura continued, “Chris Kyle was a liar, I won in federal court.”

Watch the classless Jesse Ventura in action:

h/t The Blaze

 

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J. Reuben Clark said, “We get nearer to the Lord through music than perhaps through any other thing except prayer.”

Now, we’ve all danced at some point in our lives. Some of us may have even tried to swoon our spouses with our super awesome dance skills. But… how many times were you dancing and felt like you had two left feet? You didn’t really know what to do did you?

Imagine just for a second you’re dancing with someone and there’s no music playing. That would be pretty awkward. Now, imagine how different it would be if there was music. Aside from not really knowing how to dance, it’s not so strange. It almost feels normal. What’s the difference; music on or off?

Well, if you look at this in the context of the gospel, no music would be like dancing the steps but not knowing why. While dancing with the music would be dancing the steps with a purpose. The music of the gospel gives us purpose for doing the dance steps. When you have a reason, or purpose, you don’t care if the music is playing or not. Simply because it’s been written upon your heart.

So let’s break this down a little deeper.

The dance steps of the gospel. It’s the things we do. Things like serve, our callings in church, mourning with those that mourn, even helping bear one another’s burdens. These are what we’ll refer to as the dance steps. We know we’re supposed to do them, and for the most part… we do. But, are we doing them just to do them?

What about the music of the gospel? Remember, we need to hear the music to have purpose to those dance steps. So how do we hear the music?

Doctrine & Covenants 8:2 says: “Yea, behold, I will tell you in your mind and in your heart, by the Holy Ghost, which shall come upon you and which shall dwell in your heart.”

It’s here that we learn the music of the gospel is written upon our hearts, and it’s done so by the Holy Ghost. When we are able to hear the music, it gives purpose, and brings meaning and understanding to those dance steps.

Jeffrey R. Holland said, “The simple truth is that we cannot fully comprehend the Atonement and Resurrection of Christ and we will not adequately appreciate the unique purpose of His birth or His death.” While that is entirely correct, when the music of the gospel becomes written upon our hearts, we may taste our piece of the atonement. Christ did atone for our sins. He felt every bit of pain, sorrow, and sickness. When we go through our own personal trials, we’re not alone. When we humble ourselves and look to the Lord for help, by the Holy Ghost, we will be able to hear.

It will be written upon our hearts true love. True compassion. True humility.

Speaking from personal experience, I hear the music. Some of you may know, but recently my wife and I experienced a frighteningly all too real trial. Eleven years ago I lost my mother to breast cancer. She fought against it for nine years. I know all too well the extreme end of the spectrum in respect to breast cancer. And, when I got a phone call from my wife that says the doctor found a lump in her breast, I was… needless to say, pretty scared. I thought I knew, but I didn’t. The music had yet to be written. When I was younger, I thought I was dancing all the right steps. I tried to bear those burdens. I tried to serve. I went through all the motions, dancing about life. But it wasn’t until recently that the music was being written. I was feeling the pain. I was feeling fear. And, there was only one person I could turn to. Turning to Christ, I started to understand better the meaning of His atonement. And, how real and personal it was. The dance steps were starting to make sense in relation to the music of the gospel.

Just this week, I witnessed someone go through a mighty change of heart themselves. He didn’t fully understand what was happening, because he hadn’t heard the music yet. It was Monday afternoon, and my friend had just received a phone call that his father was in the hospital coughing blood caused by unknown blood clots. Let the testing begin. A team of 7 doctors had been put together to look at the results and to read and interpret the scans. Tuesday comes around and the doctors are in agreement that what they are seeing looks like cancer. They just couldn’t determine how severe or exactly which type until after they ran more tests and a newer, much better scan. They were going to scan as much as they could. And with it, came a team of doctors at KU Med Center. Together, both of these teams would give the final diagnosis. Wednesday came around and each one of these doctors, standing in the hospital room, delivered their diagnosis. One by one, they said, “I cannot explain what has happened. Everything that we saw at the start of this case, is not there. There is nothing at this time, that we see, that points to cancer. The only thing we can say is that you have blood clots in your lungs and we don’t know why.” Knowing that the Lord works mighty miracles, the music of the gospel started to play in the heart of my friend. He said that as he thought about my mother and how I must have felt, he thought he knew, he tried to understand, but he knows a little better now. And, is able to understand in just a small way, what the Atonement means. He… had a change of heart.

So, how can we bring about a mighty change of heart in ourselves, and in our homes. Let me highlight 2 simple steps that Wilford W. Andersen gave:

First – Keep ourselves tuned to the right station, or spiritual frequency.

Back in the day, we didn’t have the technology we have today. With your phone and a few swipes with your finger, you can hear whatever you want, whenever you want. You used to have to turn a big knob, hold your tongue just right, and hope you land on the station you were surfing for. Today, the difficulty factor is reversed. Because it’s so easy, it becomes ever so difficult to shut out those things that drive away the Holy Spirit.

Dieter F. Uchtdorf warned us during General Conference in April asking: “Are we on autopilot, going through the motions, attending our meetings, yawning through Gospel Doctrine class, and perhaps checking our cell phones during sacrament service?”

We have to stay in tune, walking the walk. We must, as scripture says, ‘Be thou an example.’

Second, when we hear the music we need to be ready to dance.

The more in tune we are, the easier it becomes to invite the Spirit. Is it easy? Does it come all at once? No. And, no. It takes practise and discipline. We have to be disciplined enough and practise the dance steps of the gospel even when there is no music.

James E. Faust said, “We must cultivate our sensitivity to that divine voice… So it is with inspiration. We must attune ourselves to the inspiration from God and tune out the scratchy static. We have to work at being tuned in. Most of us need a long time to become tuned in.”

In these tumultuous times, it is increasingly difficult to hear the music. There are so many distractions, yet, as we continue to walk the walk, talk the talk, and shine forth the light of Christ, dancing the steps, the music will be written upon our hearts.

 

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